Intermediate Madani Events Surah: Al-Baqarah (221)

"Do Not Marry Polytheist Women" — Marthad Al-Ghanawi and Anaq

وَلَا تَنكِحُواْ ٱلۡمُشۡرِكَٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤۡمِنَّ وَلَأَمَةٌ مُّؤۡمِنَةٌ خَيۡرٞ مِّن مُّشۡرِكَةٖ وَلَوۡ أَعۡجَبَتۡكُمۡ
— البقرة الآية 221
Verse: "And do not marry polytheist women until they believe. A believing slave woman is better than a polytheist woman even if she pleases you." (2:221)

Occasion (Hasan): Al-Tirmidhi (3051), Abu Dawud (2081), and Al-Hakim narrated from Ibn Abbas: Marthad ibn Abi Marthad Al-Ghanawi would transport captives from Makkah. He had a woman he loved in pre-Islamic times named Anaq, who was a woman of ill repute. She came to him in Makkah but he refused and said: "Islam has come between me and you." He then asked the Prophet's permission to marry her and this verse was revealed.

Reliability: Hasan — Al-Tirmidhi said: hasan gharib; also Abu Dawud and Al-Hakim.

Lesson:
  • Islam severs the prohibited relationships of pre-Islamic times — "Islam has come between me and you"
  • Beauty and love are not criteria for marriage in Islam when faith is absent: "even if she pleases you"
  • "A believing slave woman is better than a polytheist" — piety outweighs beauty and lineage
Source: Jami Al-Tirmidhi (3051); Sunan Abu Dawud (2081); Al-Mustadrak by Al-Hakim (2/181)
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