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Surah: An-Nisa (19)
And Live With Them Properly — If You Dislike Them
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِٱلۡمَعۡرُوفِ
— النساء الآية 19
Verse: "And live with them properly. If you dislike them — perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah places much good in it." (4:19) — "Living together" means all daily interaction. Not merely avoiding harm but active goodness in every dealing. The verse acknowledges dislike may exist but teaches patience. Lesson: love is built not awaited.
Source: Al-Qurtubi (5/96); Ibn Kathir (2/226)
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How does the Quran address marital dislike in this verse?
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